Thank you so much for your wisdom and thoughts. I want to conclude with a few final thoughts on how to “deal’ with our current situation. I want to call this, “And so it goes, CDS”.
One of the most frustrating things about the pandemic is that we really don’t know how it started and why it’s happening now. No doubt, some of you have entertained the thought, “Why is this happening to me? Why now?”
The other day, I was looking for a book and an old novel literally fell off the shelf at my feet. It was Kurt Vonnegut’s anti-war satire, Slaughterhouse-Five. It’s about a WWII veteran named Billy Pilgrim who becomes unstuck in time. He keeps skipping forward and backward through key events of his life, some of which are quite terrifying: the tragic death of his wife, his capture by the Germans and internment in a concentration camp, his survival of the firebombing of Dresden where it’s estimated 25,000 people died in one evening.
In one humorous episode, he is kidnapped by four-dimensional aliens who experience all of time as one and then put in a zoo-like exhibit on their planet Tralfamadore. One day he asks his captors, Why Me?
Here’s what they tell him:
- That is a very Earthling question to ask, Mr. Pilgrim. Why you? Why us for that matter? Why anything? Because this moment simply is. Have you ever seen bugs trapped in amber?
- Yes.
- Well, here we are, Mr. Pilgrim, trapped in the amber of this moment. There is no why.
I think all of us can empathize with Billy Pilgrim right now. Together we are trapped in the amber of this pandemic moment. It’s not fun. It’s not beautiful. It is, you could say, pretty dark. But remember - and this is key - even though we are stuck in this moment, we will get out of it. Billy Pilgrim comes to accept that life is multifaceted; it contains the good, the bad and all the gradations in between. There can be no sun without shadow.
And so it goes, CDS.
You are going to have to shoulder through this darkness for just a little longer, so stay strong. Put your back into it, but never lose sight of the truth. If you look to the east there is a glorious, golden sunrise on the horizon. It’s coming!